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WHAT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT?


Sexual Violence occurs any time a person is forced, coerced, and/or manipulated into any unwanted sexual contact, attempt, and completed. It affects victims, families, friends, and communities. It can happen to anyone, anywhere, anytime. 

EXAMPLES OF SEXUAL ASSAULT


  • ​Rape (Forced:  oral, anal, or vaginal penetration)
  • Marital or partner rape
  • Sexual mutilation
  • Incest
  • Alcohol or drug facilitated sexual assault
  • Statutory rape
  • Coerced participation in the commercial sex industry
  • Sexual exploitation
  • Stalking
  • Dating violence
  • Sexual harassment
  • Child sexual abuse
  • Sexual battery (Unwanted touching)
  • Indecent Exposure

COMMON REACTIONS FOLLOWING SEXUAL ASSAULT:


  • Physical – Trouble sleeping, nightmares, headaches, loss of appetite, overeating, stomach problems and muscle tension.
  • Emotional – Denial, fear, sadness, anger, guilt, shame, embarrassment, crying spells, flashbacks, irritability, depression, suicidal thoughts and rapid changes in mood.
  • Social – Fear of being in public or in social situations, withdrawing from friends and family, difficulty trusting others and trouble with physical intimacy in relationships.
  • Academic – ​Lack of concentration, impaired memory, missing classes, and lack of motivation.

MYTHS ABOUT SEXUAL ASSAULT


Myth: Rape victims were “asking for it” by dressing provocatively or engaging in risky behavior.
Truth: No one deserves to be raped.
Myth: Husbands cannot rape their wives.
Truth: Regardless of marital or social relationships, if a woman does not consent to sexual activity, she is being sexually assaulted.
Myth: A person who has really been assaulted will be hysterical.
Truth: Victims can exhibit a spectrum of emotional responses:  calm, hysteria, laughter, anger and apathy.  Every person copes with trauma in different ways.
Myth: A person who has really been assaulted will be hysterical.
Truth: Victims can exhibit a spectrum of emotional responses:  calm, hysteria, laughter, anger and apathy.  Every person copes with trauma in different ways.
Myth: It is impossible to assault a man.
Truth: Men can be victims of sexual assault for the same reasons as women, they are overwhelmed by threats or acts of physical and emotional violence.
Myth: Sexual assault is a crime of passion/lust.
Truth: Sexual assault is a crime of violence.  Perpetrators seek to dominate/control their victims.
Myth: Sexual assault is an isolated, infrequent event that only happens to certain kinds of people.
Truth: Anyone can be sexually assaulted regardless of age, race, sexuality, gender, and economic or social background.

IF YOU ARE A VICTIM OF SEXUAL ASSAULT


  • Go to a SAFE PLACE immediately.  Contact someone to be with you who will be emotionally supportive.
  • SEEK MEDICAL TREATMENT.  Do not wash, shower, douche, go to the bathroom, brush your teeth, change clothes, or clean up in any way.  (You don’t want to tamper with any evidence.)
  • CALL 911.  Report the sexual assault to authorities, even if you are unsure about filing charges.
  • SEEK COUNSELING.  Even if you do not report or file charges, you should contact The Mahoney House Crisis Line for information about counseling.
  • Remember, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.

BEING A FRIEND TO A VICTIM OF SEXUAL ASSAULT


  • Listen – Do not ask a lot of questions.  Let your friend take his/her time to share details of the assault.
  • Believe – People rarely make up stories a bout sexual assault.  Do not express skepticism.  Expect a friend in crisis to be confused.
  • Do Not Blame – Reinforce that your friend is not to blame.  Whatever your friend did to survive the attack was exactly what she/he needed to do.
  • Empower – Help your friend understand and consider her/his medical, legal, and psychological options.
  • Share – Educate your friends about the common reactions of sexual assault in order to help normalize her/his experience.
  • Be Patient – Recovering from sexual assault trauma is slow.  Let the person proceed at his/her own pace.
  • Support – Assure your friend that you will be available to provide support throughout the process of recovery.
  • Know your Limits – ​There are times where professional help is best.  A trained therapist may be essential to helping your friend work through trauma associated with the assault and find more effective ways of coping.
The Mahoney House complies with all federal and state rules and regulations and does not discriminate on the basis of sex, race, creed, religion, color, national origin, age, honorably discharged veteran or military status, sexual orientation, gender expression or identity, marital status, familial status, the presence of any sensory, mental, or physical disability, or the use of a trained guide dog or service animal by a person with a disability, in its programs and activities and provides equal access to both,  employees and clients. This holds true for all staff and for all clients who are interested in participating in any of the Mahoney House programs.

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